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Your Guide To Finding The Right Vibrator

By: Caitlin Madden
Published On: 09/29/23
Updated On: 02/13/26
Assortment of vibrators

Not sure if you knew, but if not, SURPRISE! FP sells vibrators.

In our little corner of the internet, we truly care about all things wellness — that includes sexual wellness, and sexual wellness includes self-love. We know that it can be a little bit intimidating to shop online for something so personal, so we figured we’d give you the low-down on a few of our favorite vibrators as well as a little how to.

How to Choose the Right Vibrator

There are so many different vibes (literally) you could go with, it might get a little overwhelming. There are external vibrators, internal, dual-action, vibes that rumble, whisper, suction, operate via remote control…the list goes on and on. The most important thing to think about when choosing which one is right for you is to focus on the types of pleasure you enjoy and what you’re hoping to experience with your toy. Are you using it alone or with a partner? Something pocket-sized or a bit more commanding? Maybe you’re looking for a toy with lots of different settings or one that’s waterproof so you can relax in the tub. Size, shape, settings, volume and materials all matter when you’re choosing the right vibrator.

What Materials to Look for in a Vibrator?

Two words matter when it comes to vibrator materials: body safe. You want to look for something that’s made out of silicone, borosilicate glass, ABS plastic or even metals like stainless steel. All of these materials are non-porous and easy to clean, so that they’re less likely to harbor bacteria or viruses and they won’t harm your skin or internal tissue when used with proper care. Medical-grade silicone is the most often recommended material, used by many brands for its ability to be sterilized. It’s important that toy brands list their materials as specifically as possible so you can be informed about your purchase decision. We’re all about good, safe, clean fun!
Whether you’re a new-to-this novice or a vibrator veteran, we’ll help you find the perfect toy to fit your needs.

Our Review of the Best Vibrators at FP

THE APPROACHABLE ESSENTIAL

Sleek and simple, this versatile vibrator is designed for newbies and bullet-vibe faithfuls alike. Designed for both internal and external stimulation, it’s velvety-soft with a non-intimidating, versatile shape. With a whisper-quiet motor, four speeds and two pulsation modes, and a waterproof finish, this vibe is perfect for helping you explore what feels best, and the intuitive design makes it an entry-level favorite.

THE INTRIGUING OUTSIDER

What’s on the outside counts sometimes, too. This external toy is all about suction and was designed with clitoral stimulation in mind. Tiny but mighty, it works by creating a seal against your body, using air pressure to create a vibrating sensation upon contact. With five different intensity settings, it offers a range of different sensations—perfect for solo sessions to help discover what you like.

THE DUAL-ACTION DARLING

Step up the intensity with this dual-action rabbit-style massager designed to stimulate both internally and externally. Made to fit your curves inside and out with two rumbly heads, each controlled by its own motor for a choose-your-own-adventure combination of sensations. Each section operates independently so you can focus on external sensations, G-spot targeting or both at the same time. Made for solo or partner play, this one is designed for the adventurous.

THE FLEXIBLE FAVORITE

Luxe, lavish and indulgent — this two-in-one vibrator uses ultra-powerful vibrations for clitoral stimulation and a pulsating tip for deeply satisfying G-spot sensations. The fully flexible external arm is meant to mimic personal touch with a soft silicone body that has a warm feel. This vibrator is an intense full-body experience designed with eight settings for maximum pleasure.

THE REMOTE ROLE-PLAYER

Perfect for adventurous play, the Tiani 3 can be worn internally by women during sex. With a soft and flexible design made from silicone, this toy is ergonomically shaped and allows users to control sensations through the use of a remote. A good option for couples, both partners can interact with the remote and benefit from the transmittal of vibrations for mutual satisfaction.

Vibrator FAQS

What's a good vibrator for beginners?

The Dame Dip is an entry-level favorite with its intuitive single-button design, five intensity levels, whisper-quiet motor, and versatility for both internal and external use.

Which vibrator is best for clitoral stimulation?

The Whisperer by Smile Makers is designed specifically for external clitoral pleasure with ultra-gentle flutters, a super quiet motor, and a soft, non-intimidating lipstick-style design.

What should I look for in a G-spot vibrator?

Look for targeted internal stimulation like the Lelo Gigi 2's wavy shape with powerful motion technology in the head, or the Lelo Soraya Wave's pulsating tip designed for deeply satisfying G-spot sensations.

Are there vibrators that stimulate internally and externally at the same time?

Yes, the Lelo Enigma uses dual-action sonic waves externally and flexible internal vibrations simultaneously, while the Lelo Soraya Wave combines clitoral vibrations with G-spot pulsations.

Can vibrators be used during partner sex?

The Lelo Tiani 3 is designed to be worn internally during sex with a soft, flexible silicone body and remote control for shared sensations.

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